http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ en Fri, 24 Jul 2015 20:45:34 +0000 http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/just-the-way-you-are#post-197365 Tue, 25 Jan 2011 08:33:51 +0000 eclipse 197365@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>amichai,I am not the one saying those things.<br /> If anything,I am soooo hard on myself,a tzadik once told me:For you,Yom Kippur is enough!<br /> Meaning,I didn't have to introspect as critically/often. </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/just-the-way-you-are#post-197344 Tue, 25 Jan 2011 04:46:37 +0000 amichai 197344@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>g-d always loves us, no matter how far we go. yes pple should love and accept us the way we are. we have to dig inside ourselves and reach higher and higher. sometimes we fall, but then we can bounce right back again. you can have your choice, eat the ice cream and maybe have bad health, or eat a little and focus on other stuff, g-d stands by you but you get to choose. </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/just-the-way-you-are#post-197330 Tue, 25 Jan 2011 02:26:29 +0000 MDG 197330@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>it could be YeeOosh, it could be laziness. it could be bad upbringing. </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/just-the-way-you-are#post-197309 Tue, 25 Jan 2011 00:23:02 +0000 chayav inish livisumay 197309@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>Eclipse I'm glad to see that you were able to think of more topics. I thought you were done </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/just-the-way-you-are#post-197278 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 22:34:29 +0000 eclipse 197278@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>We are supposed to love/like others just the way they are.<br /> But the "This is how I am--take me or leave me" refrain is NOT the Torah way.<br /> Here's what I mean.<br /> "Listen,I'm not patient,get used to it,plug your ears if you want,this is how I grew up,and finished!"<br /> "I like to eat a tub of ice cream in one shot.So shoot me!I enjoy my food,and if you don't like how I look,turn the other way!"</p> <p>I sometimes think this attitude is caused by YEE-OOSH/Despair.<br /> What do you think? </p>