http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ en Sat, 25 Jul 2015 00:04:02 +0000 http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/theory-on-why-people-dont-value-thier-spouses#post-325512 Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:28:13 +0000 gefen 325512@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>another one of ice-cream's personalities? </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/theory-on-why-people-dont-value-thier-spouses#post-325508 Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:13:45 +0000 popa_bar_abba 325508@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>I think it is because "value" is usually defined in market terms, as in how much you can sell it for. Since one cannot sell their spouse, the value is zero. </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/theory-on-why-people-dont-value-thier-spouses#post-325488 Sun, 20 Nov 2011 10:22:56 +0000 WIY 325488@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>How ironic. </p> http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/topic/theory-on-why-people-dont-value-thier-spouses#post-325436 Sun, 20 Nov 2011 03:49:16 +0000 QTpie tra la la la la 325436@http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/coffeeroom/ <p>due to low selfesteem, one usually feels more comfortable dating one that they feel they are better than. they inevitably hit it off from feeling comfortable to express thier true selves without putting on a show. however in such a situation, respect is inculcated as a one sided affair and the realationship does not end up being eqaul. </p> <p>therefore prior to any shidduch dating young guys and girls should go for theraputic sessions to ensure that their self esteem is ensured for life. I believe all marriage disasters stem primarily from low self esteem. they should be evaluated so that the guys and girls are dating each other on thier level.<br /> 2 levels of social acceptance is a no go. </p>