Apologies by happygirlygirl

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    Hey all my sister’s and brothers.in case you were wondering I’m still alive (although you probably weren’t wondering but that’s beside the point) I’ve been having a very busy week bh. Any of u mind if I vent? I had a stressful week and i just found out a super sad piece of information about a sibling of mine and i can’t stop crying.I’m not asking for attention I just need an anonymous and friendly place to share my thoughtz….anyone cares?

    #1179808
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    HGG – I care. I hope everything gets better IYH soon!

    #1179809
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    HGG – I’m sure you have your mind on other things right now, but when you feel in the mood, I just wanted you to know that I posted an important comment on your makeup thread.

    #1179811
    Sparkly
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    Happygirlygirl – more than happy to help.

    #1179812
    kapusta
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    This anonymous person cares. I’m sorry about whatever happened and I hope whatever it is, it’s resolved quickly and easily.

    You are welcome to vent or share whatever you like here (as much as you are comfortable sharing). There is also a poetry thread hanging around somewhere, if you’re the poetry type.

    I hope next week is easier.

    #1179813

    Thanks people it really means alot to me btw did u notice that only gurls replied…..sensitive creatures I love my fellow sisters…

    I wish I could go into real details but im scared…..how can i stop crying I wanna go to sleep

    #1179814
    Little Froggie
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    I care. I’m not sure I can help you, or you’d want MY assistance, but I do care. Sincerely.

    #1179815
    kapusta
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    Find something to distract yourself with? Even if it feels wrong.

    #1179817
    Sparkly
    Member

    Happygirlygirl – your a fellow jew so i WANT to help. today i saw a lady who had an accident right before i went onto the the highway and i wanted to stop and help another fellow jew.

    #1179818
    2scents
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    Being sad is OK, just do not keep inside yourself, find people that are willing to listen to you, not sure the advice was given above that you should distract yourself is a good thing, maybe in the long run but running away from the fact will hurt more in the long run.

    Deal with the unfortunate situation, and I hope that you believe that Hashem has had this all planned out and in the bigger picture this is for your and your siblings good.

    #1179819
    kapusta
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    I meant temporarily, because I understood that she wanted to relax and get some sleep. You’re correct, I should have made that clear. That said.I would still recommend an outlet of some kind in addition to dealing with the emotions in a healthy way, but it depends on the person.

    #1179820
    Sparkly
    Member

    what happened to happygirlygirl?

    #1179821
    kapusta
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    I was wondering that myself. Hope everything is ok, HGG.

    #1179822
    Sparkly
    Member

    me too my heads killing and im still writing on the ywn after all these HARD classes that im suffering through.

    #1179823

    sparkly

    suffering is when someone is forced to work hard labor with no pay or many other examples including when someone is very sick

    your in college now for your good & benefit to with Hashems help become a pharmacist. if you keep this in mind then all the school work & homework etc… will not be a pain for you as long as it takes. you chose this for yourself which hopefully means you enjoy being a pharmacist

    AND THATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SCHOOL & COLLEGE. you had to go to school by law no matter what so all work & homework with tests etc… were a pain although it was for your good & education. College a person chooses by themselves, so that means the person takes the responsibilty of all work that comes with college

    if you keep this in mind then all your college work will not be so hard cause you will always know its for your future livlihood

    be Matzliach

    #1179824
    Sparkly
    Member

    Mashiach Agent – very true but i did say numerous times that i rather be a teacher and not go to college.

    #1179825

    so why then don’t you immediately become a teacher? there are so many hundreds of schools in the east coast with open teaching positions

    #1179826
    Sparkly
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    Mashiach Agent – because i NEED a degree. i NEED knowledge.

    #1179827
    Meno
    Participant

    Do teachers not go to college? Do teachers not have degrees? Do teachers not have knowledge?

    #1179828

    A pharmacist is a great choice of degree and livlihood May Hashem always be there for you in your time of need and answer all your tefillos when you call out to him.

    So if you feel you NEED it then you should have no problem coping with all the college work knowing it’s for your good and future benefit

    #1179829
    Sparkly
    Member

    Meno – not as much as pharmacists who study 24/7 and have over 7 years of science knowledge.

    #1179830
    Meno
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    So you would rather be a teacher, but instead you’re studying 24/7 for 7 years just because you “need” a degree and you “need” knowledge?

    Sounds like a waste of time to me

    #1179831
    Sparkly
    Member

    meno – are you really an engineer? because as an engineer you should know why.

    #1179832
    Meno
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    I’m really an engineer. Yet I still don’t understand why you NEED a degree and NEED knowledge.

    I worked very hard in school, but I did it because I WANTED to become an engineer and that was pretty much the only way to do it, not because I NEEDED the degree or the knowledge. If I didn’t want to be an engineer, I wouldn’t have put myself through all the trouble.

    You seem to answer a lot of “why” questions with “you should know why”. If I knew why, why would I ask?

    #1179833
    Sparkly
    Member

    why did the mods change my subtitle to a bunch of random peoples usernames?

    Why don’t you look in the mirror and ask all those random people?

    #1179834
    Sparkly
    Member

    Meno – because becoming an engineer is NOT easy.

    #1179835
    Sparkly
    Member

    even if i were those people which im not why would you post it trying to make people see every little thing about my life cut into pieces of different parts of my live and being able to figure out who i am. isnt that against the rules?

    If you weren’t those people as you say, that wouldn’t be a concern.

    #1179836

    If you picked different names so that people would not have all the pieces then please say so and these names can be deleted.

    #1179837
    Meno
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    “because becoming an engineer is NOT easy”

    I know that, but what does that have to do with what I said?

    #1179838

    Omg…..wait no this can’t be……lilmod ulilameid is sparkly?!?!?! My heart’s is palpitating

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