Dating with a divorced guy – when should I ask about his divorce?

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    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    “Most are unemployed, collect welfare or work off the books.”

    Exactly. The theoretical person we are talking about probably does one of the above – that is the point.

    Also, he probably doesn’t make more than $15,000 – $50,000 a year. That is why he is not paying child support. If he lives in Israel, I’m sure he doesn’t make more than that even if he is paying child support. The average Chareidi family in Israel doesn’t make more than that.

    I also don’t know what you mean by licenses. I work privately and I don’t have a license, and I do pay taxes. Maybe it depends on the type of job? If so, he could have the type of job that doesn’t require a license.

    In any case, the likelihood is that he works off the books.

    #1197066
    Health
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    LU -“Exactly. The theoretical person we are talking about probably does one of the above – that is the point.”

    +1

    #1197067
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    Wow, I think that’s the first time I ever got a +1 from you! And on the topic of divorce no less. So I guess there can be things we agree on.

    #1197068
    Health
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    LU -“So I guess there can be things we agree on.”

    The same thing is in marriage, but the couple have to work very hard to come to some compromise!

    #1197069
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    True. I suppose it’s good I’m getting practice in the CR at disagreeing with people.

    #1197070
    Lightbrite
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    “True. I suppose it’s good I’m getting practice in the CR at disagreeing with people. “

    LU: +1

    …and omgosh I feel the same way

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