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  • #697393
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    pba: hiding ones issue whether the issue is toenail fungus or anxiety?

    #697394
    popa_bar_abba
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    Helpful:

    If you think he is going to reject you over toenail fungus, you probably shouldn’t get married to him.

    #697395
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    Haros – are u serious about the kittel question or are you mocking divorcees right after yom kippur?

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    Eclpise – you sound very bitter, but I understand why. If you don’t have kids you can move on. If you do and have custody -you can also move on. It will take time, but it can be reality if you work on it. I sometimes have to work on it everyday.

    #697397
    Moq
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    Popa –

    Sorry, you’re right. I mean emotional issues.

    But you are also right; what is the geder of relevant. I don’t know; I suppose one could judge on a case by case basis.

    And on thinking about, you are right, you do create a catch 22, because ultimately who wants to hide something that is a real part of you from your spouse – where there should be no secrets. And ultimately, the broken trust could be worse then anything else (you were in therapy for three years because_________ and you never told me?!!1- would ‘I spoke to my Rav, he said not to tell, and my therapist gave me a clean bill of health’ – suffice?)

    I do not know. I see your point.

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    popa_bar_abba
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    Moq:

    I agree, that is the way to say it; it is a catch 22.

    It is a very hard situation. We have tried to sweep all the issues under the couch, but it’s starting to get a bit crowded.

    Ultimately, there will have to be a communal acceptance of the realities of our world.

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