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Waterbury Connecticut: The “In Town” Out of Town Alternative

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  1. Y.W. Editor
    Key Master

    No question about it: there’s nothing like living “in-town”. Frum enclaves like Monsey, Brooklyn, and Lakewood offer that unmatched ruach of being part of a great kehillah, with talmidei chachamim, rabbonim and yeshivos. Of course, amenities such as kosher meat, bakeries, and restaurants – and being near “the action” are significant components of in-town life as well.

    On the other hand, there is nothing like living out-of-town. The calm pace of life, the close-knit community, and the friendly spirit of achdus that typify out of town living are important quality of life and quality of yiddishkeit factors as well.
    It’s the age-old debate of Neighborhood Day songs throughout the Catskills each summer – which is better, in-town or out-of-town?

    Until recently, the lines were clearly drawn: East is East and West is West and never the twain shall meet.

    The virtually unprecedented evolution of the city of Waterbury may finally resolve the dilemma for those who cannot decide between in town and out of town. For Waterbury indeed offers the advantages of out of town living, and is still the closest possible alternative to city life.

    “Waterbury?” you ask. “Isn’t that a yeshiva? A city near Hartford? Isn’t that where Rav Gifter was once a Rov?”

    The answer, of course, is yes. Waterbury is home to a yeshiva Gedolah, is about half hour away from Hartford, and has the distinction of having had Rav Gifter zt’l as a Rov many years ago.

    Waterbury today, is a vibrant, frum community of bnei Torah that has grown nearly overnight from a moribund kehillah to the most popular alternative for frum families from across the Untied States. In contradistinction to other out of town communities, Waterbury is actually a satellite community of the greater frum kehillah of New York. Because of its close proximity to these metropolises, Waterbury enjoys constant growth. It is a logical and nearby alternative for young couples who wish to remain in the Tri State area but want the affordable housing, vibrant community, and quality of life that Waterbury offers. As affordable real estate becomes increasingly non-existent in Brooklyn and other New York and New Jersey locations, there has been a natural “overflow” effect to the next frontier: Waterbury

    What does Waterbury have to offer as a community? Consider the following:

    Waterbury’s full service yeshiva k’tana, with nearly 200 students, is located on the former University of Connecticut campus and features state of the art facilities and playground. The city boasts a renowned Yeshiva Gedolah, including a high school and Bais Medrash, a high level Kollel, an eiruv, three mikvaos, and three shuls: Yeshiva, Bnei Shalom, and Blue Ridge. Waterbury has both Hatzolah and Chaverim, a kosher deli, bagel store, bakery (in ShopRite), as well as kosher groceries and cholov Yisroel.

    Housing opportunities are hard to equal: brand new beautiful 5 bedroom and 3 bath homes in Blue Ridge Estates for under $300k! Waterbury offers a relaxed, no pressure environment, with an exceptional ruach of chesed, including bikur cholim and meals on wheels. The city is a little over an hour to Monsey and Manhattan and is near Stamford, Harford and Boston.

    Waterbury is also home to a number of prominent rabbinic figures: Rav Aharon Kaufman, an alumnus of Mesivta Rabbi Chaim Berlin and close talmid of Rav Aharon Schechter, serves as the Rosh Yeshiva. Rav Yosef Sonnenschein, a talmid of Rav Yonoson David of Pachad Yitzchok in Eretz Yisroel, is the Rov of Bnei Shalom. Rav Doniel Kalish, famed learning director of camp Heller, and the son of a prominent Rov and Rebbe in Far Rockaway, is the Rov of Blue Ridge Estates and a Magid Shiur in Yeshivah Gedolah. Rav Baruch Yehudah Rabinowitz, who gave a chaburah in the Mir Yerushalayim for many years and is highly regarded by the gedolim in Eretz Yisroel, is the Rosh Kollel of the Kollel of Central Connecticut (Blue Ridge Estates.) Rav Chaim Cohen, son of the renowned poseik Rabbi Feivel Cohen, is Rosh Kollel of the Yeshiva Gedolah’s Kollel. Rav Avraham Krohn, son of the well-known “Maggid” Rabbi Paysach Krohn, is a Magid Shiur. Rabbi Yehudah Brecher serves as principal of the Yeshiva K’tana. A host of other noted Rabbonim grace Waterbury with their presence as well.

    How did it all happen? And why in Waterbury more than in any other community?
    The incredible story of Waterbury’s blossoming from a virtual yesh me’ayin is a saga of remarkable hashgocha protis.

    Torah Umesorah was exploring options in community development to create viable housing options for the growing frum population. An additional agenda was to advance the parameters of the tristate frum megalopolis, thereby spreading the positive influence of Torah-true Jews to their less than observant brethren. With the active participation and encouragement of Rav Aharon Schechter, Rosh Yeshivah of Mesivta Rabbi Chaim Berlin, and his close talmid Rabbi Aharon Kaufman, the Waterbury initiative picked up steam. With the yeshiva serving as a nucleus, the growth has continued to gain momentum.

    An important addition to the Waterbury landscape has been Blue Ridge Estates, a brand new development with beautiful homes, scenic views, its own Shul, Mikvah, and Eiruv. The development is already settled, with 25% of the homes sold, and interested buyers calling regularly. The area is particularly attractive for families moving back from Eretz Yisroel and young balei batim with Torah values looking for a warm kehillah. As families from Monsey, Toronto, Lakewood, Brooklyn, California, and Eretz Yisroel continue to join the Waterbury community, Blue Ridge is playing an important role in accommodating the area’s growth spurt.

    For people who want to feel like they’re making a difference in a community; who want to be actively involved in the chinuch of their children, and who appreciate the beauty of out of town life that’s just a stone’s throw from New York – Waterbury many just be the ideal alternative.

    Posted 3 years ago #
  2. glc
    Member

    I am a former talmid of the Yeshiva and was thrilled when I saw the heading for the article. For some reason, Waterbury does not seem to get a lot of exposure. This could be because of the unsteady reputation it had a while back. However, if one visits the yeshiva today they will see nothing but a promising and budding yeshiva . I was there less than 2 years ago and experienced the most life altering 2 years of my life. I was not a person who was off the derech, confused, or looking for direction, yet, it was truly life changing. You walk through the doors and you begin to change as a person. I cannot explain it, it just happens. Rebbeim there are unlike any other. They love each and every talmid and do everything it takes to enable them to succeed. You also will not find an insensitive bochur in the yeshiva as well. The overwhelming sensitivity from each and every bochur and rebbe is astounding. It honestly is a great community to be part of and Please do not think I am trying to advertise by writing this. I am merely showing appreciation to the people who made me become the person I am today.

    Posted 3 years ago #
  3. Pashuteh Yid
    Modern Chareidi Zionist

    Any town which doesn't have 5 kosher pizza shops is strictly minor league, and shouldn't even be mentioned here on YW.

    Posted 3 years ago #
  4. charlie brown
    Member

    is the name blue ridge an anti-red statement? :)

    Posted 3 years ago #
  5. loyalyid
    Member

    I visited there a couple of times, it's indeed amazing what this yeshiva has done to the entire neighborhood.
    Also los of yidden who own or manage real estate throughout Ct., use Waterbury as their station to daven or buy kosher refreshments at the shoprite, bagel store, or at the yeshiva's vending machine, and treat themselves with a coffee and cholov yisroel at the yeshiva gedola's coffee room.

    Posted 3 years ago #
  6. Water Berry
    Member

    I agree I think Waterbury is a great place to live. There is a great Yeshiva K'tana, a nice community, and they are in process of opening a Pizza store

    Hope to see you there

    Posted 3 years ago #
  7. asdfghjkl
    Member

    Water Berry: sure see ya there!!!

    Posted 3 years ago #
  8. flatbush27
    Blocked

    i like blueberries better :)

    Posted 3 years ago #
  9. coke not pepsi
    Member

    corny

    Posted 3 years ago #
  10. outoftowner
    Member

    are the rumors true? Is the pizza place really reopening?

    Posted 3 years ago #
  11. Gevoldig
    Member

    The Pizza Shop just opened up today. B'h good food and great ambiance.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  12. Jax
    Member

    Gevoldig: send us CR members & mods some pizza to see if it's any good please! & welcome to the Grand CR! join the fun!

    Posted 2 years ago #
  13. cherrybim
    Member

    Y.W. Editor - "On the other hand, there is nothing like living out-of-town. The calm pace of life, the close-knit community, and the friendly spirit of achdus that typify out of town living are important quality of life and quality of yiddishkeit factors as well"

    Another great thing about living out-of-town is that there is no need for psychiatrists or police stations or musser sedarim in the yeshivos because everyone just loves everyone else and as soon as someone from in-town crosses over into Waterbury or Lakewood, it's magic: no more shalom bais issues, no more lashon hara, no more talking during t'fila.

    So, out-of-towners, don't blow it with all the publicity because in-town YWers who don't currently enjoy the quality of life and quality of yiddishkeit as you do, might just move next door to you.

    You can run but you cannot hide.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  14. azi
    Member

    Its probably a great place to live. and not to far from NY. I have always found that Waterbury guys don't have that certain thing that in town guys do. It's very refreshing.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  15. outoftowner
    Member

    umm... Azi, I can half agree with you, But 90% of them are from Brooklyn, so maybe the refreshing thing that these boys DON'T have is in the air that they breathe in Waterbury :)

    Posted 2 years ago #
  16. azi
    Member

    outoftowner,

    they all ended up there for a reason. also you probably dont know to what I was referring.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  17. anonymisss
    Member

    azi, Waterbury's a really nice and the people are really nice. Many Waterbury guys are from in town. Sorry.

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  18. gavra_at_work
    Member

    anonymisss:

    They ARE wonderful. Dish is doing a great job with the boys there.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  19. azi
    Member

    I was referring to the fact that they are very warm and friendly syag

    Posted 2 years ago #
  20. outoftowner
    Member

    You are right,
    They are warm and friendly, and I am right too.. They are mostly from in town... No sdeera... Yes, they are there because they enjoy the warm and friendly, and close knot environment... All valid points...
    Not necessarily contradicting one another :)

    Posted 2 years ago #
  21. azi
    Member

    outoftowner,

    you are right especially about the "close knit" part.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  22. anonymisss
    Member

    Hmm... so which ones of us live in WB or went to yeshiva there? jk-don't answer, personal info.

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  23. azi
    Member

    I have never been in that industrial village, however I met many talmidim from there over the years. Plus both Roshei Yeshivos started out in the yeshiva I went to (one as a rebbi the other as a talmid.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  24. anonymisss
    Member

    Ummm.... azi, nice yeshiva you went to. (My family is also you-know) You were there when they were? I thought you were younger. Don't say your name, please.

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  25. azi
    Member

    Much younger. I graduated 6 or 7 yrs ago. One was a rebbi when i was there and the other I just knew who he was because of his father and sibling who i am friends with.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  26. anonymisss
    Member

    Oh, that makes more sense;)Cool! Waterbury's awesome and so is ____________!!! Right?

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  27. azi
    Member

    A, you have siblings that are there or went there?

    Posted 2 years ago #
  28. anonymisss
    Member

    I know at least half of WB and some rebbeim travel from brooklyn (ahem).

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  29. Jax
    Member

    someone please invite areivim into this thread asap!

    Posted 2 years ago #
  30. anonymisss
    Member

    and, azi, I'm sure you know where most of WB comes from. Right?

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  31. azi
    Member

    A, if you are implying that they come from my yeshiva then you not correct. I don't think there are to many guys from my yeshiva there or at least there souldn't be.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  32. anonymisss
    Member

    Not the guys who GO to WB yeshiva. The other people there. (Do you know any guys in WB high school?)

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  33. outoftowner
    Member

    Who saw the cover of the Hamodia magazing this week!!! (I can name all of them :)
    Who saw the article in the Yaated??
    Who saw the article in Hamodia newspaper last week?
    I'd say this little city is gettign a lot of attention

    Posted 2 years ago #
  34. Jax
    Member

    outoftowner: on shobbos i saw it & thought of the CR!
    ames: CR espionage!

    Posted 2 years ago #
  35. mepal
    Member

    outoftowner, I saw it too! Good for you, guys!

    Posted 2 years ago #
  36. outoftowner
    Member

    Sorry not to be such an intellectual, but what does espionage mean?

    Posted 2 years ago #
  37. anonymisss
    Member

    outoftowner-no need to feel bad-spying.

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  38. outoftowner
    Member

    haha--- are you guys a little bored?

    Posted 2 years ago #
  39. mepal
    Member

    Not at all. They're paranoid.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  40. anonymisss
    Member

    Who hijacked this thread?? We were having a very pleasant chat here about Waterbury. Espionage can be discussed in the espionage thread.

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  41. outoftowner
    Member

    k- Back to Waterbury.. Who has heard the story behind the new mikva?

    Posted 2 years ago #
  42. YW Moderator-72
    Retired Moderator

    outoftowner,

    this story?

    http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/article.php?p=34884

    Posted 2 years ago #
  43. outoftowner
    Member

    Ok- got me there- so who was THERE when the Satmar rebbe came?

    Posted 2 years ago #
  44. anonymisss
    Member

    heard it. That's a story out of a book!

    ~a the real one~

    Posted 2 years ago #
  45. artyboy20
    Member

    to the YW editor- you said; "No question about it: there’s nothing like living “in-town” Frum enclaves like Monsey, Brooklyn, and Lakewood" i believe you missed 5-towns.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  46. mark levin
    Member

    better to live "out of town" than anywhere in NY!

    Posted 2 years ago #
  47. notnorm37
    Member

    YA! Out of town is the best!!! Its warm, very open, you don't get judged when you walk down the street, and we're still normal...

    Posted 2 years ago #
  48. mepal
    Member

    So then why are you taking the Chemistry regent, may I ask? I thought only NYers get stuck with that.

    Posted 2 years ago #
  49. notnorm37
    Member

    maybe i go to school in ny... ever thought of that??

    Posted 2 years ago #
  50. mepal
    Member

    ...now I did! ;)

    Posted 2 years ago #

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