which shul to daven in

Punctuation changed, some words replaced with synonyms so it’s easier to understand:

When a seat’s ornaments wish to join a henchman with other Modern Orthodox Jews, it causes conflict. If I do not wear a black hat, I will not be accepted into certain henchmen. This is wrong.

I don’t own a black hat. If they don’t want me I go somewhere else.

I think he meant the following

When a chasidic jew wants to join a minyan with other Modern Orthodox Jews it causes conflict because if I do not wear a black hat , I will not be accepted into certain minyans, this is wrong

To the original poster: has this actually happened to you or just imagining it. I think most of us have been part of minyanim with all sorts without someone suggesting you daven elsewhere

Any Shul that objects to someone davening there that isn’t of their particular group, is not a Shul that anyone should daven in.

I davened in a Chassidishe steibel for a very long time. Nobody was ever turned away because they were not Chassidish or Yeshivish and everyone was welcome.

I’ve seen the same thing in every Shul I’ve ever davened in. It’s probably rare that a Shul would discourage people from Davening there.

go to the shul with no talking during the prayer services