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		<title>By: aries2756</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Nov 2013 17:27:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I worked with someone like that a while back. He was about to take over a small school for a special group of young ladies.  He contacted me had we had a sit down.  He convinced me that he &quot;could not do this without me, and that it was imperative that I join him in this venture&quot;  What does that mean to you?  Yes that is what it meant to me as well.  Partners.  I gave of myself 24/7.  I was told that he couldn&#039;t pay me yet because there was no money in the budget, so I did it anyway, but low and behold there was money in the budget to pay himself and everyone else.

That wasn&#039;t the worst of it.  Instead of respecting me, and showing me hakaros hatov for my devotion and dedication for working &quot;with&quot; him because he told me that he couldn&#039;t open this school and run this school without me,  he treated me as a volunteer and allowed others to treat me as a volunteer with not only less authority than the paid employees but no authority at all.  My devotion to the children and the school meant nothing even though it usurped all my attention away from my own family. 

The &quot;faculty&quot; even told the children that I &quot;was ONLY a volunteer&quot; and actually caused a battle of loyalties between us.  Even through all of this I had his back even though he did NOT have mine.  In the end, the Faculty that he supported and promoted instead of the &quot;partner&quot; he pumped up to join him in this venture, left him mid-term and took more than half the students with him.  So much for loyalty from the paid employees.  But even that did not teach him a lesson in loyalty to me and how to treat those you work with, with the same respect you expect of them.  When I had my fill of being stepped on and stabbed in the back, I quit and took everything I bought with my &quot;OWN&quot; money with me.

I am still very connected to the students in that school and the other.  Many are still a part of my extended family and I am &quot;bobby&quot; to their children.  I don&#039;t believe I can say the same for him.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I worked with someone like that a while back. He was about to take over a small school for a special group of young ladies.  He contacted me had we had a sit down.  He convinced me that he &#8220;could not do this without me, and that it was imperative that I join him in this venture&#8221;  What does that mean to you?  Yes that is what it meant to me as well.  Partners.  I gave of myself 24/7.  I was told that he couldn&#8217;t pay me yet because there was no money in the budget, so I did it anyway, but low and behold there was money in the budget to pay himself and everyone else.</p>
<p>That wasn&#8217;t the worst of it.  Instead of respecting me, and showing me hakaros hatov for my devotion and dedication for working &#8220;with&#8221; him because he told me that he couldn&#8217;t open this school and run this school without me,  he treated me as a volunteer and allowed others to treat me as a volunteer with not only less authority than the paid employees but no authority at all.  My devotion to the children and the school meant nothing even though it usurped all my attention away from my own family. </p>
<p>The &#8220;faculty&#8221; even told the children that I &#8220;was ONLY a volunteer&#8221; and actually caused a battle of loyalties between us.  Even through all of this I had his back even though he did NOT have mine.  In the end, the Faculty that he supported and promoted instead of the &#8220;partner&#8221; he pumped up to join him in this venture, left him mid-term and took more than half the students with him.  So much for loyalty from the paid employees.  But even that did not teach him a lesson in loyalty to me and how to treat those you work with, with the same respect you expect of them.  When I had my fill of being stepped on and stabbed in the back, I quit and took everything I bought with my &#8220;OWN&#8221; money with me.</p>
<p>I am still very connected to the students in that school and the other.  Many are still a part of my extended family and I am &#8220;bobby&#8221; to their children.  I don&#8217;t believe I can say the same for him.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Nov 2013 13:44:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If Yeshivos would teach Onaas Devorim in the elementary schools as they did Shmiras Haloshon, the next generation would be totally different. People would treat each differently - with more respect. It would encompass everyone - Parent/child, Husband/Wife, Employer/employee, friends, roommates in Yeshiva and the list goes on. The same way a child todays grows up knowing it is wrong to speak Loshon Harah, if we taught Onaas Devarim in schools, they would know that it is wrong to berate someone in the fashion described above.  Rav Pam spoke about it in one of the Videos of the Tishaa Baav Event from the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation. Also, I think Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation is starting to introduce a curriculum to Schools - as I have seen in their booth in the Torah Umesorah convention. But we need the Roshie Yeshivas, Menahalim to want to do it, and to encourage the schools to put it in their regular schedule. A small allowance of ten minutes a day can produce a different generation. As we have seen happen with the limud of Hilchos Loshon Harah.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If Yeshivos would teach Onaas Devorim in the elementary schools as they did Shmiras Haloshon, the next generation would be totally different. People would treat each differently &#8211; with more respect. It would encompass everyone &#8211; Parent/child, Husband/Wife, Employer/employee, friends, roommates in Yeshiva and the list goes on. The same way a child todays grows up knowing it is wrong to speak Loshon Harah, if we taught Onaas Devarim in schools, they would know that it is wrong to berate someone in the fashion described above.  Rav Pam spoke about it in one of the Videos of the Tishaa Baav Event from the Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation. Also, I think Chofetz Chaim Heritage Foundation is starting to introduce a curriculum to Schools &#8211; as I have seen in their booth in the Torah Umesorah convention. But we need the Roshie Yeshivas, Menahalim to want to do it, and to encourage the schools to put it in their regular schedule. A small allowance of ten minutes a day can produce a different generation. As we have seen happen with the limud of Hilchos Loshon Harah.</p>
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