Comments on: Out Of The Mailbag – To YW Editor (Modest Suggestion For Shidduch Crisis)

By: Who said what

Who said what — Tue, 05 Feb 2008 16:41:28 +0000

for all of you who wanted to know weather i got in touch with lgbg the naswer is yes

the two of us are working on shidduchim for the both of us you all might want to join

By: dont have internet

dont have internet — Mon, 04 Feb 2008 02:35:17 +0000

ok first of all i really think i know you both in shuddichim and bygirl…. dont listen to BTMOM shes just trying to cause trouble

By: BYgirl

BYgirl — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 19:36:19 +0000

INSHIDDUCHIM:
I am really unsure what to write but I feel a need to respond. InShudduchim, please don’t take btmom’s words personally. I am pained that your pained. There are many instances in life when people say mean things, or when people say things that are perceived as mean and the only way to go on is to brush it off. It was defiantly a sharp and very interesting comment but why do you care what she thinks of you? As long as you know that your doing your best and doing the right thing, you should just forget about it. by the way, did you ever get in touch with LGBG? It just may be a Shidduch! Sorry, for teasing it’s just kinda funny. Hatzlacha to you and all of your endeavors.
BTMOM: For Heavens Sake, how old are you? You talk like a tw0 year old. I don’t say that to many people but you definitely look like the type that could handle it. Why can’t you express yourself in a more aristocratic way. If your a mother then there are really issues to discuss. You may feel strongly but there is proper way to present what you have to say. Don’t you see that were dealing with a sensitive, hurting individual? She is pained and your just pouring salt of the wound? Are you so oblivious to her pain. Are you not able to read between the lines and feel her sorrow? Like everything in life there is a right way and a wrong way, and there is no doubt in my mind that you have chosen wrong. Hatzlacha to you, and Hashem should help you to be a sensitive,sweet, and caring person.

By: InShidduchim

InShidduchim — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 16:36:41 +0000

hey #73…”i’m like totally shocked!!! i mean it like totaly blows me away!”
wow!! you are really strong!! i feel terrible and i am sincerly apologize for my “abysmal standards of literacy”? im very sorry if i caused you pain in any way due to my sorrowful writing ability. i hope that you were able to sleep last night and that it didn’t bother you enough to affect your daily life. I have to admit howerver that i am simply appalled how you could harass me like that and call me “airhead bubblegum-chewing superficial valley girl”. i was quite insulted at that comment and even appaled at yeshivaworld for allowing such a nasty comment to appear on a “yeshivish” website. i was crying out for my friend who is having a dificult time with shidduchim. Im sorry if i wrote the word “like” too many times, but is that a reason for you to tear my letter to peices and rip my heart to shreds! and BTMOM, if you claim to be a mother, i am scared to know how you treat your own children, if this is how you refer to a bas yisroel (me!) please rethink this over. i want to comment on other comments. I appreciate other people’s concern for my friend, but i am too angry to write about it for the fear that i might Chas V’shalom cause BTMOM some pain for my “abysmal standards of literacy”.
Sincerly
a “airhead bubblegum-chewing superficial valley girl”

By: umm

umm — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 05:36:58 +0000

Just a side point concerning middos and shidduchim. Another suggestion; like the author said, we all came down to this world to work on our middos and on ourselves, sometimes something in a prospective shidduch doesn’t seem 100% right, but maybe it isn’t supposed to be that way, maybe Hashem is giving us a tool with which to overcome a middah, it will irritate you until you work on yourself and become a greater person than you were before. What would we all be like if everything in life was exactly as we want it/ imagine it/ dream it… we are here to work!! It’s not a reason to say no!

By: btmom

btmom — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 03:47:41 +0000

i’m like totally shocked!!! i mean it like totally blows me away! cuz how cd ppl actually think that InShidduchim was anything but a ridiculous parody of an airhead bubblegum-chewing superficial valley girl? Her post in #56 proves that. What does it say about our abysmal standards of literacy if no one (except for poor BYgirl who was castigated for her well-meaning editorial suggestion)even picked up on that?

By: thinkinghelps

thinkinghelps — Fri, 01 Feb 2008 01:44:28 +0000

The shiduch might not work after all, considering that Who said What seems to have a screename on aim, while LGBG doesn’t know how aim works…..

By: Who said what

Who said what — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 18:08:31 +0000

LGBG its wierd, I emailed the editor to put us in touch with one another but so far no reponse

By: lgbg

lgbg — Thu, 31 Jan 2008 14:16:46 +0000

who said what

its not workn-you can try for my email

By: Who said what

Who said what — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 22:47:21 +0000

LGBG

click on the link contact YW in the upper left hand side of this page.

ask him to give you my email address or vice versa.

oh by the way, IM would be a great idea for all of you that posted prev.