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January 27, 2014 1:03 pm at 1:03 pm
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AZOI.IS
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AFAIK Shadchanim in frum communities get $1,000 per side, minimum, these days. My relative IS Mochel on Shadchanus for their BT/Gerim Shidduchim, because theyre not familiar with the Halacha/Minhag of Shadchanus. Both sides here are FFB.
Just wondering, do poor people feel they dont have to pay Shadchanus and are patur with a candy dish, etc? Although Ive heard from a well knwn Shadchan that they got less from their wealthy Shidduchim and more from their Shidduchim involving people who dont have any money.