Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

I am commenting on your pre determined amount of $1000, not on making a payment. Read it again with that in mind and you will see where I never said not to make payments.

And Halacha does not say that being a shadchan is a job, the ‘meaningful’ way you speak of is you knowing I am correct but wanting to split hairs. 😛