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February 3, 2014 5:54 pm at 5:54 pm #1003277
🍫Syag Lchochma
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I don’t think there is any way to make this understood by those who aren’t interested in understanding-

nobody is saying we shouldn’t have shadchanim or that they shouldn’t be paid according to halacha. The comments are VERY CLEARLY in regard to shadchanim who whine and display poor middos, thinking that they can look down their noses at those who THEY PERCEIVE to have slighted them. IF YOU ARE NOT SOMEONE WHO DOES THAT, THEN WE WEREN’T TALKING ABOUT YOU!!!