AZ –
It CAN be the same – regarding Dr. , Lawyer , plumber, ect.
Maybe in my mind having to make a whole wedding ( fancy or not still can cost an arm and a leg )
That ‘Set price’ its just can be a burden to the family. ( like you said ) and thats actually a good Idea if it can work
I guess shadchans are underestimated .
also. could be from what I have heard over the years about shadchanim and the way they work I could be biased.
okay but let me ask you if your child were to get engaged you can easily shell out 5K?