Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

AZOI.IS, are you reading Syag’s post as saying that we should get rid of shadchanim and go the pizza shop route? I don’t; she’s making a point about bitachon. If you want to counter with a description of the role hishtadlus plays in our actions, that’s fair. But if you think she’s advocating for hefkerus in dating, I can assure you that she’s not.