Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

“to avoid the bickering and potential bad blood”

apushatayid

The OP is proof it happens.

I thought I was done with this thread but I couldnt not respond.

I made my first Shidduch over thirty years ago. Since then Ive never complained to the parties involved when I got no Shadchanus at all and I never said anything but Thank You when I received Shadchanus of any amount. Im not sure where you gathered that I did otherwise. No bickering, no bad blood with anyone. Thats not my style.

Interjection, all I can say is Thank You Thank You Thank You.