Popa
If you spent a year listening to that garbage no wonder you don’t understand what’s wrong with it. My skin crawls when I hear the songs today in a supermarket or from a ups truck or whatever…
Try to detox and then you will be able to understand. When you are in the mud you have a hard time seeing through it and you become used to it. When you go a month without movies tv and any of the non Jewish music and media garbage and also learn Torah and mussar you wont ask these questions.
When I hear non Jewish songs I also think about Hashem but Im sure its not what you think….