Reply To: for those going crazy…

so i did leave a letter with my # on a sticky note in her locker. she hasn’t called me but she did thank me. i also brought up the situation as a general matter (without mentioning any specific names or info) with a teacher ( who is fresh out of sem, was in high school with me, probably the only one who would effectively spread the message around the staff.)

i wish i could tell you that she turned her life around completely but there isn’t much i could’ve done to help her without making her feel like my chesed case (she already made it very clear that that’s how she feels so i wouldn’t want to exaggerate that). for example, i was thinking of inviting her over for a shabbos (shes only a yr younger than me) but this might make her extremely uncomfortable and think that im only doing this because she opened up to me. however im still debating if i should because even though she might feel that way now, inviting her might be better for her in the long run.