Reply To: Handed a Pen during Shiva – anyone know the story? Home › Forums › Bais Medrash › Minhagim › Handed a Pen during Shiva – anyone know the story? › Reply To: Handed a Pen during Shiva – anyone know the story? February 14, 2011 10:49 am at 10:49 am #1006697 shev143Member The way I heard it: The Avel gave the pen back and said “no, I asked for coffee, no sugar”.
