“but dont you guys want peace with people who arent like you.”
Who is “you guys”, doesnt sound very inclusive, or friendly.
“im not suggesting you shrug off when someone is doing something wrong. im saying watch how you speak about them.”
I didnt say anything differently. Like I said before, there are ways to disagree with someone, and when unsure how to proceed, consult a Rav.
“if your goig to end up wih negative views you will treat them negativly.”
What you are really saying is that one must learn how to separate a person from their actions. not every mechallel shabbos (i picked an example of a mitzvah, could have picked any other as well), does so because they are looking to throw off the yolk of hashem. It could be they simply dont know any better. There are ways to be (for lack of a better word) mikarev someone to mitzvos that dont include insults and hatred.
GAW: not sure that gemara refers to what I was saying.