there is a major difference between telling something to a yachid or telling something to a whole class. If the rebbi believes the guy needs such a thing (although I really can not see a circumstance in which it would help) thats one thing. But saying that to a whole class or yeshiva is unbecoming of someone of their status and unhelpful. One can say something is hevel without denying that it is enjoyable (as you yourself said). It is a very fine line to walk. Unfortunately I have heard quite a few rebbeim attempt to argue with reality and it did not make them look good in the eyes of their talmidim. Also such a line of thought if it must be expressed should be said to an age appropriate audience. Not elementary school kids.
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