Oomis, exactly!! To the tee. Every point.
For me, (and everyone can see this) I’m already busted, many, to my disdain know me IRL and everything I wish to express has to be scrutinized and veiled. What I do write these days is much less than those “good-old” days when I ran completely undisturbed. Changing my s/n again won’t do much, I can’t hide from my inner self, that’s me and it’s probably gonna be me.
Another disturbing factor (cannot be avoided, I guess) is when anyone here “whacks” me, it hurts a lot more, it gets chewed and rechewed by those “in the know”. No, it not a comfortable feeling. Surprise! I do have feelings. Sometimes very, very sensitive. And the hurt factor adjusts accordingly.
I know, it’s my fault for “opening my mouth” in the first place, still…
I may yet choose to switch to again to another, if just to confuse the newest “family members” for some time – just a possibility.