DHM:
At least I would consider Dr. Rabbi Moshe Meiselman as “Brisker”, and he says Rav Yoshe Ber is his Rebbe.
Unless only REAL Briskers don’t call Rav Yoshe Ber “the Rav” (which I do not, that is not my Hashkafa either).
As far as being “very organized”, I (and Ittisa) wish I was. 🙂
I just see in you a microcosm of the stereotypical Charaeidi in EY. Not that it is all inclusive (I have “Chareidi” friends in EY who are nothing like this), but this is the PC groupspeak (for lack of a better term) that goes around, enforceable by Shunning.
Not that it is a problem there, either. That is what makes (B’H) all Yidden different, but all with the same goal.