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So I am between mo machmir and modern yeshivish. But like I want my husband to be a black hatter, its just that (and this isnt being mentioned for the sake of being controversial), I dont see myself after my experience in a bais yaakov wanting to send my kids to a bais yaakov but I wouldn’t mind sending my sons to slightly yeshivish yeshivas provided that they have a strong college preparatory educational component. In other words, i dont want to send my kids to schools that heavily promote and are mechanech their talmidim to be rabbis/ teachers and if my kids want it it shouldn’t be because of the schools. Yet at the same time I listen to non Jewish music.