Reply To: This is Hakaras Hatov to the Shadchan?

apushatayid, you are asking random strangers what you may have done wrong, on the other hand when those same random strangers suggest what it is you may have done

Perhaps you have comprehension issues. I asked “How do I get to the bottom of this?”, translated simply as

How do I get THEM to tell me whats bothering them after a year of efforts on and off, leading to them finding their lifelong soulmates!

Anyhow, Hashem is good! I just became aware of another Shidduch materializing tonight iy”H!

Thank you Hashem!!!!!