“i always think that no one besides me has problems and ive ruined that *perfect life* for myself.but i guess its not true.btw can you still be happy despite the problems ”
first of all, there is no one, absolutely no one with a perfect life. what I mean by that is that you will make many choices in your life, for each one there is a positive, negative, or neutral outcome. there are many possible positive outcomes in life but perfection is not possible on this necessarily imperfect world
I had a friend who was terminally ill, and who always had a smile on his face. his words when asked about it?” It wasn’t my choice to get sick, I cant control that. but what I can control is being happy”