The point is not to look down on others. I sense that you are condescending to those who arent up to your frumkeit standards. We cant judge others
WIY, isn’t that statement a little hypocritical from someone who wrote:
I find that as long as daddy is in Kollel he is all holy and the house is Torahdig but then once he leaves he drops in Ruchnius like a stone in water. What do you think that does to the family? They all drop with him. A non Kollel family doesnt have this phenomenon.
And someone who opened a thread regarding those who do not wear hats or jackets during minchah?
Fine, you don’t judge those who sin openly and consistently, but at least don’t be consistent and don’t judge ANYBODY, including me.
We have to know what they do is wrong and educate our kids properly, but if we tell our kids, dont dress like that Jewish girl, shez a prutzah she dresses like a shiksa you have done more bad than good.
Now what makes you think I ever said don’t dress like a particular girl, she’s pritzuh? Actually b”H I personally don’t live near pritzusdige women, none of my neighbors are pritzus, b”H for that, so I never said anything of the sort. Would I live in a neighborhood where pritzus in the norm I would tell my kids that we are very proud to adhere to halacha, we are not cheap, we respect ourselves and therefore we cover oursleves according to halacha. And even if there are frum people who don’t follow halacha that doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do.
Now if you don’t agree with my chinuch methods, I can’t help you, but I certainly will not come to you for chinuch advice.
You have no right to look down on another yid, or to hate them in your heart for their lower level of frumkeit.
As I repeat like a broken record, I look down on people’s openly, deliberately, and continously flouting of halachah. I never hate ANY human being, whether they are a non-Jew and especially if they are a Jew if they have not deliberately hurt anyone.