As a “petite” girl in shidduchim I think if a girl is short she has every right to say no because of a guys height (same way a tall guy might say no because the girl is too short)
I’m 5″! I have every right to say no to a guy whos shorter than that- granted- if I’m wearing heels and hes only a little shorter then its another story- but its still all about comfort- and a girl has a right to say no to something she isn’t comfortable with. Guys can say no because of looks but girls can’t say no because of height? come on. talk about double standards.