but it’s so normal now everyone just lies.
Not everyone.
When my kids were in elementary school, there were school rules that we adhered to, even though we didn’t agree with them. True, they didn’t make us sign a document, but we adhered to the rules. I would not agree to rules (and certainly not sign any document) that I was not prepared to live up to.
Fortunately, the high schools we chose for our kids did not have any such restrictions.
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