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ok, third try here. You’re certainly right that a wronged party should try to forgive as best they can. I was referring to repeat offenders of simple things lacking basic mentchlichkeit. It’s not about the wronged party forgiving, it’s about the wrongdoer learning to take care to be a mentch. You know what they say, do it right the first time and then you don’t need to do it over. Yes, mistakes happen, but like they also say, the second time isn’t a mistake anymore.