“Why Me, G-d?” by Lisa Aiken. It helped me tremendously.
To my fellow posters on this topic: This man is grieving and is humble enough to admit that. Give the man some comfort. Especially at this time of year, we need to be kind to our fellow Jews.
Of course he will be happier when he remarries. But to get married on the rebound while he is still grieving is NOT a good idea!
Dear YaakovDovid, I hope that you will find your true Bashert at the right time for both you and her. But do take some time to grieve first. Gemar Chasima Tova.