@sam2 I 100% agree! What it says in Gemara is not just there to be learned: it’s important to be learned!! It SHOULD be learned. And not in a way that makes people feel uncomfortable about it.
As for this discussion, any article of clothing can be worn in a tzniusdik or non-tzniusdik way. It’s all in the way it’s worn. I once saw 2 girls at a wedding wearing the same dress; one looked so eidel and refined, the other one did not (I won’t elaborate, considering the public forum here). Tznius isn’t about inches, styles, colors… It’s about how you wear your clothing, if you’re trying to attract attention or if you’re wearing it for the right reasons.