Adam, I am totally with you. None of my friends wants a boy who does not earn a parnassah, for their daughters. They want boys who learn every day, but who are realistic enough to understand the concept in ein kemach ein Torah, and to recognize that not all parents are able to provide great financial support, even were they willing to do so. Hang in there. The right girl will recognize your worth. Clearly you have been dealing with the wrong shadchanim.
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