#I think there should be a mediator for all girls like myself, who want guys like the ones who wrote to this thread. We girls who want working ben torahs, and those working ben torahs are not second class. I once dated someone who was in college, and when telling a friend about it, she yelled at me for “selling myself short” meaning I should go with a learner. It really bothered me, so I spoke to my Rav about it, and he said there is no such thing. There are yissochers and Zevuluns, it’s the way of the world.
And a woman has a right to be at home with her children. I honestly fail to see the beauty of those young girls with three bitty children slaving away with two jobs and running a house with bleary eyes so their husband can learn. It’s been taken out of context, Girls should not be maids!
yes, men should learn, but they also promise at the chuppah to support financially, so please do so!