1)Any ??? with real yiras shomayim and understanding of tzniyus wouldn’t feel comftorble dancing in front of men
2) “If a man really wanted to watch he always could” -The point is to make it out-of-the-way so that as long as a man doesn’t try to tempt himself he won’t be.
3)Sam2-please explain “Simcha goreres simcha” and it’s relevance to this discussion.
4)I have a lot to say to those who prefer mixed chasunahs but to prevent this post from being deleted I’ll leave my machaos for a different time.