Oh, let me not forget – a story (OK, maybe it didn’t happen). There was this person who needed to catch his bus, he was running after it just as it pulled away. Frantically, he chased it down some streets, wondering how come nobody on the bus thought of glancing back to see if anyone’s chasing it – to alert the driver. Finally after some chase he caught up with it, got on, and settled down in a seat to catch his breath. HEY, WAIT A MINUTE. Did YOU go check if anyone’s chasing the bus? Suddenly it’s each to his own?!?
I don’t know your matzav at all (I’ve not followed you around over here either). I can’t know how hard it was for you to be able to get to this special day.
At some time during many people’s single-hood they wonder, Hey how come no one’s finding me a Shidduch? Why isn’t anyone doing for me, helping me, davening for me?
So as you stand under the Chuppa in those precious few moments, take a moment to see if anyone else is in need of your special Kochos!!