Besides for the Age Gap problem we need to look at something that we (each one of us here) CAN change…
Chasiddishe boys sometimes get married after they turned 23 and they may even marry a girl who is 19 but it doesnt destroy their system because…
1)Chasiddishe boys are taught to respect and like all types of Chasiddishe girls
2)Chasiddishe girls are taught to respect and like all types of Chasiddishe boys
(Too skinny, too fat, too old, too young, too ugly, too poor, too many health issues, too many problems with parents, too much into working instead of learning…etc.)