BTGuy amein! and your right it is! everyone has got to start thinking for themseleves just cause half the girls get up and go half way across teh world doesnt mean that all need to!!!
Letakein girl we all knew it was coming!
healthcrazy- that is somethign you will really need to research personally cause all awensers depend on you! they both have good reputations,but you might not be looking into what they are offering you. in the bais yaakov world they are very nice seminaries,while ateres has a bit of a more variety of girls then seminar does. you most likely find out who you know in those and other seminaries and give them a call