ARWSF – “but I am too old, and too heimishe, and have too many kids and lots of brachas which I can’t trade”
Too old you’re not. No such thing as too Heimishe, in the NYC area.
The kids would be a problem, if there isn’t anybody to watch them. Maybe your husband and parents and in-laws can help out, if you can’t afford babysitting?
Also becoming an OB ain’t what you think it is, there is a lot of surgery involved. You could become a Certified Midwife. They basically don’t do any surgery, they just do check ups and regular deliveries. Also, the schooling is much less than a Doc.