I don’t understand u could wake up wtvr time u want every day without ever having to worry about shema zman teffila or TEFFILIN do u realize what a luxury that is?? I love the mitzvah of teffilin, but seriously chill, why would u want another reason to never be able to sleep late or go places where a minyan is required?!
U wanna wear teffilin go ahead they cost 2000 bucks and have to be put on EVERYDAY not just when u feel spiritual, and can’t be kept just anywhere eg; sun heat etc. . Oh and a bag and accessories are like another 150$. U wanna tallis also?
My advice: enjoy the mitzvos u were given its alot easier for women to connect to god then for men they dont need all the extra stuff, maybe that’s why they weren’t given them, who knows