“We hold it’s assur” (according to my tzad l’hachmir).
Just to be clear, I do understand your position, that as long as I recognize that you are following a legitimate psak, I hold it’s muttar for you even if assur for me.
Lol at the analysis of the mindset of people who do or don’t eat cholov stam. For my part, that’s not even the discussion; it’s a discussion of lifnei iver.
I will say, though, that if my donut is chocolate glazed, and yours is Boston Creme, my donut is holier than thou’s. 🙂