plonis3141: I believe that is so true. Actually I heard a GREAT rebbe, a phenomenal mechanech say the exact same thing.
btw, about potching, Rabbi Miller was entirely for it. Of course it must be in moderation, without anger. But for a kid to observe the whole world falling to his knees, everyone afraid of approaching him, he says it’s no wonder they grow up to be who they are. No wonder kids bring guns and shoot at their teachers and classmates, they weren’t trained otherwise, they are emboldened by the world’s power afforded them. These are his words. ???? ???? ???? ??? is for real, not some pshat or drush invented by today’s “enlightened” people, smarter the ????? ??? ????.