Uptight is the right word. I certainly don’t advocate going to poolhalls, but neither do I like the traditional lounge date. What kind of place is that for frum kids? Do you have any idea how much pritzus goes on in hotels, starting at the bar?
Ok, so please elaborate on how and where you think they should be meeting that would replace the shadchan.
Also, you’ve made this point before about hotel lounges. I don’t think you are very familiar with hotel lounges though, since your description is fortunately not at all accurate. I am very familiar, I have, shall we say, been in quite a number of them, on quite a number of occasions.