Yeah thats the book and the direct quote, thanks
DY now we are talking about semantics, No he didnt use the word assur, but he did not to deviate from a minhag (and Minhag is more stringent than Halacha). so we interpreted the statement differently.
I do have a question for you, You said before why should I care when someone makes some chumra that I dont follow and disagree with. How come when someone uses a kula and those condemn these cula or being makil and Ive even seen people use “LIfnei Evir”. If I eat Hagan Daaze Ice cream, Why should it bother you.
However when one shows examples of chumras on the right not only do we disagree with , but think are downright wrong you answer. It doesnt affect you so why do you care.
I care because I truly believe that its damaging to Yiddishkeit to make such chumras as Hamaser or this no Pizza at Melava malka is as damaging or worse than YCT. There are many people who even follow these rebbes who really shouldnt be following these chumras and at some point reach the point of Dayenu and just leave (And I belvie its getting worse) One can bury themselves in the sand and think it isnt happening, but it is.