The first guy I went out with finished the shidduch after 6 meetings, and it was hard since I had allowed myself to get emotionally involved (and someone at work got engaged the same week and all she could talk about was her chosson this and her vort that). It can be hard when the other person says no to you, on the other hand, I learned to keep my emotions in check the next time, and concentrate on does the person really have the qualities I’m looking for in a husband. So when my second shidduch ended I wasn’t that bothered. And the third guy became my husband.
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