Your last sentence just said it all, ffbb613. If it doesn’t work out, you hope he will be open to compromise. In my very humble but honest opinion, that is where you need to do some solid unbiased thinKings and it. What if you see kollel life is not working from YOUR end, because you envisioned it differently, but HE is perfectly content and does NOT want to compromise? Do you say, “whoops, my bad! I never realized it could be so hard!!!” and then what? To do this successfully, you need to make a real PLAN together, one that addresses all these things. At the end of the day, please discuss this fully with your parents and his, because no one who is giving you blanket encouragement in the CR, plans to support you financially. It’s easy for us to tell you what to do, but we are not your Plan B.
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