FFBBT613, sounds like a painful situation. Seems like he’s ready for marriage and knows what he wants from life, and you just want his friendship. That’s why, as others mentioned, it’s not good to have a boyfriend yet. You need your personal growth. and that’s not an insult! That is a fact! EVERYBODY does. You asked in your 1st post “Is it ok to ask him to compromise?” the answer is NOT on his learning. Welcome to life! You’ll have to find somebody more suitable when your ready. Let go this friendship and find someone else. Ashkenazim and sefardim do not have the same mentality.
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