From a guy’s perspective: you need the ring and the girl and a minyan.
From a girl’s: it’s gonna be alot!!
Mentally walk through a wedding that you stayed at for the whole time and write down everything you can think of. Tiny little details can be inexpensive and make the wedding nicer and everyone happier….like lots of water and CUPS for after second dance.
If you get caught up in wedding frenzy….there’s always the guy’s way!! Minyan, pie of pizza and done!