It is not a crisis if a girl is not married by the age of 18. To often now being are being called Ameritza Hashem By You instead of their actual names. A Madel or Buchar should date until they find the right person who they think they should marry. There should not be any pressure to get married because it can ultimetly lead to someone ending up with the wrong person chas vishalom. Shidduching now in days have gone to an extreme and get interview for a shidduch more intensely then a job. What happened to the good old days in where people met and chose who they dated and were not pressured into it. We must pray to the abishtar to help us all not fall into social pressures. Not judge a sefer by its cover and be more down to earth and except people for who the are. Each person should make his or her own decision in life. Their is a common misconception about things and society should not pressure anyone.
FFBBT613 don’t worry. You are very young and in time you will find the right person. I agree with you 100% and strongly stand by you when you say that it shouldn’t matter what your parents do. weather they wear or don’t wear a hat or cover or not cover their hair. I am sure they are amazing people who love and respect each Jew. It doesn’t matter what is on the outside, its matters whats inside. Knowing that you are looking for someone who doesn’t care about gashmius or shtick like that will surely find you the right person. I am sure you would rather someone who respects you for who you are and sees the true inner beauty. With the help of hakadosh baruch hu you will find the right person.