The question is not so much of the capabilities of women, the question is what is the mission women were created to do?
For the answer, we have Chazal and Mesorah.
It is not that women want to be men; it’s that women are looking at men and think “it’s not fair.”
Either it is fair, or it’s not supposed to be. Those are the only two options that fit with Chazal and Mesorah.