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be joyful: Im suprised the mods allow such blatant trolling. you have no armaments you can say but you dont like the way it makes you feel, so you are trolling.

simcha613: thats a good point. A problem is that the gem there in brachos 60a says until 40 days you should daven to have a boy, even though sex is determined at the time of conception in reality. It also says that if you hear screaming from your town you should not daven that it is not from your house but you can say if there is a fire, allow my family to be saved from the fire.

The shulchan aruch brings both cases down, and says that one should not pray to change the child’s sex after 40 days, and also that one should pray to change what is hidden from the eye- both cases right next to eachother.